i dont think i like fob asians. just because of one thing alone: their mentality vs my mentality.
and it’s the culture differences thats to blame.
fobs vs americanized asians are 2 completely different people i have noticed.
there are asians who were born in america or immigrated here at young age but choose to go more towards fobville because it is their comfort level, to be around something that they are familiar with; such as culture. these are what i call the close minded or sheltered beings.
and then there are asians who were born here in america or immigrated here at young age, but do not care so much about their culture to be put on a pedastal, they just acknowledge it and accept it and care more about the other aspects of other cultures. these are what i call the open minded individuals.
i dont speak a lick of korean, nor do i understand it. i know how to only read and write. period.
but the thing that only bothers me in the korean accustom, is that just because im one single ethnicity doesnt mean i have to live by only the justification standards of my ethnicity. thats like im being put into a box. so if im korean, i have to eat korean food, hang out with korean people only, date korean girls, marry korean women, watch and listen to korean media, have only korean friends and drive a korean car with korean clothes on and go to a korean church???!!! are you kidding me? that sounds insane!
how am i gonna learn anything new about myself and experiences? you gotta be open minded.
forgive the world for society is so focused on the appearance.
and i know i look korean as my image, yet i do not even think of myself as korean. i just see myself as a person.
anyways i would never date a girl with a fob mentality ever.
and i would never marry a girl with a fob mentality too.
i would never raise my kids with that mentality either.
i would never attend a school or church that has that mentality too.
nor have a group of friends with that.
the fob mentality is UNHEALTHY.