this is what i have learned thus 5 months to share to facebook:
make everything in life: God-centered.
before the day starts, put on your armor.
rely on God first and fully and always.
be about: God-centered mentality vs the worldly mentality.
the worldly mentality is all a lie from the devil.
popularity contest, reverse psychology, mental games, tough love, arguments, emotional intimacy, money, power, insecure leadership, proud humility = worldly mentality.
and always look to Christ as your role model, he is the truth.